World War 1 Group Discussion

 The first and the great conflict happened in the world is the world war I. It was happened and flourished between the central powers of Germany, Austria- Hungary and the Ottoman Empire against the allied forces of Great Britain, the United States, France, Russia, Italy and Japan.
During the world war I, all the modern technology has been issued. It resulted in greater unexpected destruction. Research says that, 9 million soldiers has been killed at the end of the war.

On 28th July, the Austro-Hungarians first fired the shots of the first world war. Germany invaded Belgium and then move towards France.  Germany was leading about And on the other side,  the Russian army was against the Austro-Hungarians, with successful soldiers.

We can say that as “War of Attrition”. From 1914 to 1917, soldiers on each side , fired on each other like trenches. They used artillery for fires and lobbed grenades. Whenever the military leaders ordered to attack, the soldiers “safety” went. As the war was having the trench war style, lot of young men were died in the world war I.  Many people were killing daily, that is why it has been said as war of attrition.
During 1917, Russia became up in the revolution.  The new communist government, made Russia to move away from the world war I. Russia signed the Brest-Litovsk peace treaty with Germany on March 3, 1918. And as a result of this, Germany was able to divert these troops to the west in order to face the new American soldiers.

The fight continued in the next year too.  Millions of soldiers were died during the war, but the result was little land only they gained. There was a huge difference between the European troops and the American troops. The freshness was remained for long years in the American troops, they were very enthusiastic till the last day of the war. Whereas the European troops, got tired and tired enough over the course of time of the war, as it happened for years. They lost the energy to fight more.
And, during the due course, the Versallice treaty, were argued and formed the peace treaty . And because of the arguments and they made many compromises and such that the war got ended. The terms of the peace treaty was anyway controversial only. Both the sides of the troops get compromised and signed and ended it finally.
The result of the war , it was counted that 10 millions soldiers were killed. If calculated by average, 6,500 deaths every day was happened and added that millions of civilians were killed. What the civilians do ? for the egoism between the countries , for some good result of someone, for the benefit of someone, many people have lost their lives.
We can say, World war I was the rude war and the blood war ..
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Career After B.Tech

What do you think
What your are going to do after BTech?
10 Best Career Options after BTech..
1. Campus Placement
2. Go for an M.Tech degree
3. Do an MBA
4. Prepare for Civil Services
5. Short Term Courses
6. Entrepreneurship-Start your venture
7. Go Abroad
8. Join the army
9. Be a Change Maker
10. Explore the artist in you

The very first option is
Campus Placement...
Already bored of studying? Then getting selected in a decent company visiting your campus seems a good option. If you don’t have any intentions of studying further, or at least immediately after B. Tech, you can opt for a job. This is considered to be a safer option where you get time to decide which field you want to stick to-Technical or you want to shift your core interest area from technical to management or some other stream.


 Go for an M.Tech degree
If you studied engineering out of passion and not because you were forced by your parents or just for sake of doing it, then MTech is a good option. You can opt for the field of study you aspire to expertise in. For this, you need to prepare well for the entrance exams to get into a good college. GATE (Graduate Aptitude Test in Engineering) is a national exam conducted in India which can fetch you admission in IITs, IISC or NITs and many others.


 Do an MBA
Don’t feel you are the technical guy your parents wanted you to be? Always felt like you are a manager and want to see yourself in a business suit in some MNC? Probably you have a fascination for MBA too. Don’t get diverted by the thoughts that everyone is doing an MBA right now and its value has decreased. If you want to make a career in the management sector, hold managerial positions, then MBA is the right choice. You may specialize in your area of interest which may be the all time popular fields like HR, Marketing, Sales or the new growing domains like Digital Marketing, International Relations etc. In India, there are various entrance examinations that will help you get into the top 30 MBA colleges. CAT (Common Admission Test) serves as a gateway for an MBA at the IIMs and many other leading institutes. Some other popular exams are XAT (Xaviers), NMAT, SNAP, CMAT, TISS, IRMA etc.

 Prepare for Civil Services
Always saw yourself as an IAS or IPS officer? Admit it,some day or the other you must have thought about preparing for the Civil Services but left the thought because you felt that it's very tough to crack!
Yes. Indeed it is one of the toughest exams in the world to crack and there lies a huge competition to be a civil servant, but you cannot hold yourself back because of this. Civil Services is not just about cracking an exam and then clearing an interview, it judges you on everything you can think of, who you are and what you stand for!
You need to put your complete focus in addition to lots of determination to prepare for Civil Services Examination. For that you need to - Believe in yourself.

Best one Short Term Courses...
There are various short term courses and diploma courses you can opt for after your B.Tech. It can be a certificate course in embedded technology, VLSI, robotics, ethical hacking, protocol testing, machine designing etc.or a diploma course in any specific domain.
Such courses are generally job oriented and serve as a bridge between what you know and what the industry expects you to know in order to absorb you into their organization....

 Entrepreneurship-Start your venture
Do you have dreams of being a job provider? Always wanted to be your own boss? Then starting something of your own is a great option. But before you think about it you need to be sure about your options. Startup is trending more as a fashion then a career option. Being your own boss does not mean you can ignore work and life would be easy. Starting your venture and making it succeed would be the toughest of all the things you can do. It will have ups and downs every new day. Maybe you would not get any client for the whole year. Be ready for the challenges and immense learning if you are determined to be an entrepreneur. This is the road less traveled....

 Go Abroad
It is also a very good option to explore. If you choose to study abroad, you will get a lot of exposure and learning along with the education part. You might also be able to get a job at international locations if you have plans to settle abroad permanently in the future.
You can also explore integrated opportunities abroad. Along with options of MS you may explore options of MS+PhD and other research oriented courses. In addition, you could look at the various fellowships in research and development category available that may fascinate you too. You can also apply for the various scholarships which will fund your education partially or completely.

 Join the ARMY
Give a chance to the patriot in you. Joining the Army/Navy/Air Force or any other wing of the defense services can be exciting and high paying at the same time. You can join as technical staff by applying through the University Entry Scheme (UES), which require you to apply on their respective websites or appear for the AFCAT (Air Force Common Admission Test). You can also apply for flying positions in Indian Air Force by clearing AFCAT.
The times are gone when you tagged defense services with only patriotism. Now you can be utterly professional when opting for defense as a career. These positions will give you an opportunity to live your life for the nation, a life with good facilities and a decent sum to take home as well.

SSB Interview Rapid Fire Questions

Personal interview in SSB is a part of 5 days testing, personal interview or PI requires more preparation than any other tests. Whatever you speak during PI counts and adds it to your personality, also interviewing officers tries to know more about you by asking questions of different levels. If you are a repeaters then you may know that few basics questions are always asked by interviewing officer.





Interviewing officer ask you series of questions at once and you are required to answer it one by one. It is not difficult if you listen to IO carefully, be calm and start answering one by one in a normal fashion. To help you, below are the few basic questions asked during personal interview.

1.   Name of the place you come from ?     
2.  Institution where you had your education ?
3. Your 10th class marks ?
4. Favourite subjects in 10th class?
5. Favorite teachers in 10th class, why?
6. Teachers you didn't like in 10th, why?
7. Your 12th class marks?
8. Favourite subjects in 12th class?
9. Favorite teachers in 12th class, why?
10. Teachers you didn't like in 12th, why?
11. Any competitive exam after 12th, what was the result?
12. Your graduation %age?
13. Why did you choose Btech/BSc/etc?
14. Participated in any extra curricular activities? 
15. Any special achievement? 
16. Who all are there in your family? 
17. What all they do ?
18. How do you pass time? 
19.  How do you spend your pocket money or income?
20. Tell me something about your friend?
21.  Who is your best friend?

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Counter questions based on your answers:

1.     Why your % is less in 10th/12th ?
2. Why your marks are less in your favorite subject?
3. Why did you stop playing xyz in college?
4. How did you prepare for xyz competitive exam?
5. Why did you fail in xyz competitive exam?
6. Why didn't you try for NDA after 12th if you were keen to join Defence?
7. Why you failed in NDA?
8. Why your %age is less in graduation? 
9. Why your job is different from what you have studied, why didn't you join in your core field?
10. Why you are not doing any job after your graduation?
11. What competitive exam you are preparing for? 
12. What else if not Defence officer?
13. What is your future plan?
14. What xyz is your best friend?
15. What qualities you look in a friend?
16. What bad habits your friends have?
17. Do you drink, smoke, go to prostitutes?
18. What your friends think about you? 
19. What is the xyz rule in xyz game?
20. How would you organize a game of xyz in your college?
21. What is the latest international news?
22. Do you know about "xyz" which was in the news recently?
23. Why your GK is so weak ?
24. As you are an electrical engineering, define current ?
25. What do you know about Indian Army?
26. I guess you are not fit for defence officer, what do you think?
27. What are the dimensions of the xyz game court?
28. What is the best and worst part in your current job?
29. Why you failed in previous SSB attempts?
30. Tell me something about your hobby of xyz ?
31. Why do you want to join defence?
32. What next if you do not get recommend this time?
33. Do you want to ask something?

More SSB Interview Questions

There are so many other questions asked by IO which also depends on how and what you answer, in fact, you only drive the whole interview questions asked by IO so always be careful what you speak there.

Have your ever faced any odd questions from IO? do share it in the comment box below.

How to face Interviewing Officer in SSB Personal Interview

          Personal Interview is a key factor which decides your recommendation in the SSB Interview, SSB Interview questions and answers plays vital role in the assessment of the candidate. How to face the IO[ Interviewing officer]  in the SSB PI[ SSB Personal Interview] is the major concern here, one wrong move can tarnish your image and reduce your chances to get recommend.


One must not take the PI as a formality , SSB Interview questions and answers sounds very informal when compare to any other interview but they are designed to access your overall quality as a person and helps to judge your suitability to become an Officer in Indian Defence Forces . We will discuss about the points you should keep in your mind to get the best impression in SSB Interview .

First Impression is the last Impression :

Lets follow this saying in SSB Interview also, yes the first impression plays a vital role in the personal interview , it may do good or bad for you. To get the first impression as a good impression try to follow below mentioned points:

•     Dress neatly , wear formals for Personal Interview , avoided wearing something which makes you uncomfortable , if you find yourself smart in front of the mirror other will also finds the same so have a comfortable outfit .

•     Look out for the best color combination, wear light color cloths , do not wear a tie if you are not habitual to it , wearing a tie won’t put any additional impression  but if you love to wear it then must have it.

•     Enter into the room showing all teeth , I mean to say go with decent smile and wish the Interviewing officer , do not ask for permission to go inside, already you have been called inside .

•     IO will ask you to sit , if he won’t then after waiting for 5secs you can sit by your own, it will show your confidence to take the action and self decisions .

Body Language  :

Once again a very important point to keep in mind is to have a decent body language during the whole interviewing process. Most of us forget about our body movements and postures while talking with someone; specially here the IO will have a total look on your body because he will be sitting 3-4 meters away from you , so avoid doing unnecessary yoga postures during PI.

•     Sit straight and lean backward , utilize the chair to relax not to become panic . Avoid leaning forward while answering to questions or putting some stress on a particular answer, it also shows you’re not confident but nervous . You might have seen during the PPDT most of the candidates start leaning forward and sits on the edge of the chair , it shows your confidence level is less.

•     You can use your hand while answering but make sure that hands should not start flying here and there , use them gently like a gentleman.

•     Look at the IO while answering , he was also a candidate like you , why to become nervous in front of him , think as if your are talking to a friend who is interested to know about you to make friendship . Please avoid watching here and there , talk to the person sitting in front of you, take it as a challenge  and say yes I am ready to face you .

Communication  :

We know the importance of communication skills , here communication means the way you pass your answers to the IO, if you are very good in speaking English but whatever you said goes above the head of the IO then it is of no use on the other hand if you are not so fluent but the way you speak is convincing and shows that you are confident while answering then you hit the target . Candidate from cities are supposed to speak well in English , candidates from rural area are also supposed to speak in English but IO may over look their mistakes .

•     Listen to the question first, think the answer for 2-3 secs and then say it, yes you can wait for sometime to think before answering, no one asked you to speak as soon as IO stops. Think for 2-3 secs how and what you are going to say, it will help you to deliver the answer in a proper way with less mistakes.

•     Being a repeater you must know the common questions which are asked by the IO every time, do prepare them well before the PI. You can check SSB Interview questions and answers here.

•    Speak softly and calmly , keep your voice  audible to the IO, do not raise the voice suddenly , try to speak normally with expression. Have you seen how  officers use to talk , yes , you got it now, follow that.

Listen First :

Yes dear aspirants , being a young blood we have decide not to listen  anyone and do our own , NOT HERE , listen to the IO carefully , do not assume a question like the way you want it to be or faced earlier. You may be answering the East when asked for West, just think how badly it will create your  impression in PI.

•     Listen to the question properly , wait for the IO to stop and then think and speak.

•     Do not start thinking of a answer when the IO is asking questions , it won’t let you to listen to the question properly and you will end up with saying different answer.  Let the IO complete his words so that you won’t interfere in between .

•     Ask IO to repeat the question if you missed it, and then answer it properly.

 Be Open ; But in a Limit:

IO wants to know about your personality and your personal life, for that you may come across few questions which you would like to hide just because you think that it will create a negative impact on your PI. This thing is correct up to some limit but you should be careful in choosing what to hide or what not to hide. IO is a well experienced person sitting over there so be carefully while holding a mask or trying to hide, you must be a genius in this. [Try it at your own risk Smile ]

•     Try to speak what is asked by IO, do not put additional information, be to the point or else the IO will sleep off.

•     Again I say think before answering , it will help you to decide what to say or what not to say.

Take the opportunity to ask Him :

Many IO provide you an opportunity to ask something , it could be anything. Take the chance and ask him something but make sure that you should not ask something very personal or irrelevant to SBB or Defence. Keep in mind that whatever you ask him also shows your own character and quality ,IO may pick something from that too, so be sensible while asking something.

How to Improve Your Personality for SSB Interview

It is rather difficult to define personality. Personality is the sum total of our habits – physical, mental & emotional. It is that quality which makes a human different from an ape. Considering the above definitions, we can say that personality is a wonderful quality .It is an  essential part of a  person which make him what he is.

It is something which distinguishes him from his fellow beings. Personality is neither biological nor natural. It can be developed and improved . Environment plays a considerable role in shaping our personality and attitude. Attitude is acquired in the early stages of life. As the time passes, they get strengthened and are absorbed in the personality of man. For proper development of personality, it is essential to have a proper attitude. Attitude which make up the major part of a man’s personality leads to success or defeat in his life. It is seen that development of personality largely depends on the development of attitude. If attitude is hazy, the personality will not be clear. If the attitude is healthy and constructive, then the personality is also healthy.

                              

A question generally arises as to whether we can change our attitude which hampers our progress. This can be done, if we are able to counter the influences which developed our attitude, we can overcome and correct our attitudes. To develop your personality, friends, try to develop a moral character and of course a healthy body and mind. Try to have a good knowledge on the present trends in social, technological and political fields. Extensive reading of books, journals and a wide spectrum of newspapers helps to increase our knowledge which will help us to achieve confidence to face the SSB. A candidate’s character traits are assessed throughout SSB Tests and it is essential to have a good sparkling character for an officer to effectively command and coordinate his subordinates. A man without a good character is like a flower without perfume.

Friends, Here I have enlisted certain hints to improve your personality for SSB

•     Concentrate on one thing at a time.

•     Do not blame others when things go wrong.

•     Show an interest in what other people say.

•     Cultivate a sense of wit and humour.

•     Be optimistic and cheerful.

•     Have a good moral character.

•     Try to avoid making others fell inferior.

•     Have a good and friendly smile.

•     Talk about things that interest others.

•     Remain cool in adverse conditions.

•     Be always vigilant.

•     Have a good ,well-built body.

•     Cultivate a habit of congratulating others in their success.

•     Always look fresh and cheerful.

•     Cultivate self-control and humility.

•     Have sympathy for others.

•     Have will power and determination.

•     Think twice before doing or saying anything.

•     Have a wide store of knowledge.

•     Have some commonsense and practical intelligence.

•     Actively participate in the activities of the organization or school you belong to.

•     Cultivate a habit of accepting your mistakes and shortcomings and try to rectify and correct them

•     Be impartial-Should not have extreme views on any subject.

•     Be good in your dress and tress.

•     Have good professional knowledge and always try to be active.

•     Should not be lethargic.

•     Always try to be friendly with others.

•     Cultivate a habit of initiating conversations with others.

•     Be Bold and courageous to face every difficulties.

•     Think positively.

•     Walk erect, swinging your arms, and breathe deep.

•     Try to improve your voice and make it pleasant.

Friends, try to practice these tips in life. This would bring a great change in your personality and sociability. If you are able to implement all these tips, then friends, you will be mentally fit for Defense forces.

General Tips for Facing Interview in SSB

                  
There are several factors which help the candidates to tackle the SSB Interview and leave a good impression on the Interviewing Officer. Personal interview in SSB is very crucial, one must not go unprepared for SSB. There are certain things you must keep in mind, they are

•     Preparation for the Interview: The candidate has to prepare himself to be able to answer basic questions regarding the service which he wishes to join. Before facing the Board, the candidate must try to acquire sufficient knowledge on the burning topics of the world and of the service which he wishes to join. Being not able to answer basic questions regarding army and telling the board that you wished to join army from your childhood will only put you in a awkward situation.

•     Increase your general awareness: The candidate must be able to answer questions on all the current events in the world. But one thing is to be noted that if you didn't know about an event, be truthful and tell the interviewing officer that you don’t know it. Your wide store of knowledge will of course increase your confidence.

•     Relaxation: Tension causes nervousness which is really fatal in SSB Interviews. You should not worry about SSB Interviews. Early preparation will reduce your tension and if you feel nervousness, take 15 long breaths, It will surely restore your confidence.

•     Facial expression: It is said that face is the index of mind. So be natural in your facial expression.

•     Dress: The dress should be according to the place and climate. The dress should not be shabby and as far as possible, wear light colored shirts. The mustaches should be properly trimmed and cut your nails.

•     Manner of sitting in the Interview room: Always put your hands on your thighs and must not move it. Avoid use of unusual; gestures and speak truthfully to the Interviewing officer with a smiling face. The candidate should maintain eye contact with the Interviewing officer, should not look up, down, left or right.

•     Manner of talking : Talk politely to the Interviewing officer and if you ever want to disagree with the Interviewing officer, do it politely and be natural in your talks with the interviewing officer. Your voice should be pleasant and audible. Do not murmur or stammer. Maintain a normal speed while talking. On controversial topics, it is always better to talk both for and against it and try to provide a solution for it. It shows that you have a constructive approach. Sometimes the interviewing officer may put anger provoking questions. Do never lose your temper. Be cool in answering.

•     Leaving the Interview room: After the interview is over, you will be told to leave the room and never forget to thank the interviewing officer. Leave the room confidently as you came in the Interview room. Leave the room with a gentle smile and with your head held high. It shows that you are confident.

•     Preparation for SSB Interview: The candidate must be able to answer questions related to their educational back ground right from their 8th standard, Regarding your hobbies. Interests ,activities in which you participated , basic information regarding the service you wish to join ,why you want to join that particular service ,why were you screened out last time, some SRT’S LIKE THAT 

If you have any other tip to share, do write it in the comment box below.

21 Signs that You are a Fauji at Heart

Hey folks! This article will list out some of the most common things that we, the fauji’s at heart have. Now you may either be a defence aspirant, or you may be already being a recommended guy waiting for the joining instruction. Some of you may be under training officers and some already an officer. While some may have crossed that age limit to join defence yet and obviously they love Fauj from their heart. So read on!

   
1.You get absolutely crazy when you see the uniform. Just the sight of the uniform makes you super excited and your wish to ‘earn it’ increases.

   2. Independence Day and the birthdays of martyr’s or apparently any such day related to patriotism are celebrated by you with a lot of joy and enthusiasm.

    3.You are keener to celebrate the ‘patriotic’ festivals than any other regular festival like Diwali, Eid, and Christmas. And of course you celebrate these festivals with super happiness and pride.

   4. Patriotic songs like “Mere vatan ke logon” make you super sentimental, almost into tears.

 5.   You listen to patriotic songs almost every day, and not only on 26th Jan or   15th August.

  6.  No matter which band or firangi song you like, your favorite will always be our national anthem, ‘Bharat mata teri kasam’ and ‘kadam kadam badhaye ja’.

 7.You social networking is filled with lots of patriotic shares, likes and status.
  
8. 95% of you have one time or the other used a Fauji photo as your cover, profile picture on Facebook.

  

  9.  You Facebook likes comprise more of fauj related likes than Bollywood.


 10  . Picture of a Bollywood/Hollywood hero shown along with a Fauji’s picture which have caption “he is a real hero” are always ‘liked’ by you.

11  .  You love to read military quotes and remember a lot of them, often you put them as you status or use them in normal conversation.

 12  . You know a lot of stuff about the aircrafts, ships, artillery and infantry equipment. Not only this, you constantly read about the latest acquisitions and technological advancements of the tri-services.

13 . One or the other time the thought of joining defence has crossed your mind.

14.    Your movie collection has Lakshya, Border and LOC as a must in a very good print. You like to watch them once in a while.

  15.You are not afraid of any of the extremes of temperature, be it hot or cold.

  16.  There is an adventure spirit inside you, making you love to travel in India anywhere. You want to practice all kinds of adventure sport.

 17.   You love to meet new people and you can easily adjust in any atmosphere.

 18.  You would rather be loved to call an Indian than being called a Gujrati, Punjabi, Bengali, Up-wala, Bihari etc.

 19.Those aviators and that bullet make you crazier!

 20   It might not be totally astonishing if your bed time stories consist of reading stuff about Fauj mostly on Wikipedia or on other websites.

  21.  You have liked knowledge sakar and you were reading this article, trying to compare each and every point with yourself!

Speed Breakers Vs Life Obstacles

         Friends, क्या होता है जब आप smoothly अपनी गाड़ी चला रहे होते हैं और अचानक ही एक speed breaker आपके सामने आ जाता है ?
तब आप क्या करते हैं ?

क्या आप अपनी गाडी वहीँ रोक देते हैं और आगे बढ़ना छोड़ देते हैं ?

नहीं ! आप तो बस गाडी थोड़ी धीमी कर लेते हैं और breaker बीत जाने के बाद धीरे -धीरे अपनी speed बढ़ाने लगते हैं . Isn’t it ?

गाड़ी के मामले में हम सब यही करते हैं , पर जब अपने goals achieve करने की बात आती है , life में successful बनने की बात आती है तब लोग काफी differently behave करते हैं .

बहुत से लोग अपने लक्ष्य के मार्ग में आने वाले obstacles को स्पीड ब्रेकर्स के रूप में ना देख एक ऐसा dead end समझ लेते हैं , जहाँ से आगे नहीं बढ़ा जा सकता ;
और फिर वे अपने सारे efforts छोड़ देते हैं !

पर roads पर आने वाले speed breakers और life में आने वाले obstacles में कई similarities हैं ,और ये समानताएं हमें सीखाती हैं कि जैसे ब्रेकर आने पर हम रोड पर नहीं रुकते वैसे ही लाइफ में प्रोब्लेम्स आने पर भी हमे रुकना नहीं चाहिए।  आइये इनपे थोड़ा गौर करते हैं :

दोनों आने ही आने हैं :

ना हम बिना speed breakers के रोड पर चल सकते हैं और ना ही बिना ऑब्स्टैकल्स के life जी जा सकती है … ऐसा एक भी सफल इंसान नहीं मिलेगा जो आपको ये कहे कि वो बिना बाधाओं के ही सफल हो गया . इसलिए इस बात के लिए mentally prepared रहने में ही समझदारी है की goals achieve करने के efforts में रुकावटों का सामना करना ही पड़ता है .

दोनों ही important हैं :

अगर speed breakers न हों तो uncontrolled speed की वजह से बहुत से accidents हो सकते हैं ; उसी तरह life में आने वाली obstacles हमें गहराई से सोचने और समस्याओं का समाधान ढूंढने में expert बनाती हैं .

किसी ने कहा भी है कि किसी की सफलता इससे नहीं आंकी जानी चाहिए कि उसने लाइफ में क्या पोजीशन हासिल की बल्कि इससे आंकी जानी चाहिए की उसने इसे हासिल करने में कितनी बाधाएं पार की।

दोनों temporary हैं :

कोई रोड ऐसी नहीं होती कि जिसपे सिर्फ speed breakers ही हों , और न ही success का कोई रास्ता ऐसा होता है जिस पर सिर्फ बाधायें ही बाधाएं हों … ब्रेकर्स और बाधाएं दोनों ही temporary होते हैं , आते हैं , कुछ देर के लिए हमें प्रभावित करते हैं और फिर चले जाते हैं। पर अगर कोई इन्हे temporary ना मान कर permanent समझ ले तो वो success से दूर ही रह जाता है .

दोनों से निपटने के लिए आप कुछ अलग करते हैं :

पहले आप smoothly अपनी गाड़ी चला रहे होते हैं पर जब speed breaker आता है तो आप गाडी का acceleration कम करते हैं और break लगाते हैं …. ठीक इसी तरह जब life में obstacles आते हैं तो इनसे निपटने के लिए आपको कुछ अलग करना होता है , ज़रा सोचिये अगर driver breaker आने पर भी वही करता रहे जो वो कर रहा था तो क्या होगा …. उसे झटका लगेगा , और अगर speed अधिक है तो accident भी हो सकता है . Life में आने वाली problems से deal करने के लिए हमें कुछ अलग करना होता है . Obstacles हमारे normal course से एक deviation है और उससे निकलने के लिए हमे अपने approach …अपनी technique में भी changes लाने पड़ते हैं।

ज़रूरी नहीं कि वो दिखाई दें :

कई बार speed breaker का पता तब लगता है जब हम उसपर से गुजर चुके होते हैं , उसी तरह कई बार problems तभी समझ में आती हैं जब वे हमें नुक्सान पहुंचा चुकी होती हैं . ऐसे cases में हम बीते हुए को नहीं बदल सकते पर definitely हम आगे के लिए सावधान हो सकते हैं .

दोनों के कई forms होते हैं :

जैसे सारे स्पीड ब्रेकर्स एक जैसे नहीं होते , कोई कम bumpy होता हैतो कोई ज्यादा , उसी तरह लाइफ में आने वाली प्रोब्लेम्स भी अलग-अलग तरह की होती हैं। कुछ आसानी से solve हो जाती हैं तो कुछ बहुत समय लेती हैं। पर ये निश्चित है की अगर हम एफ्फोर्ट्स डालते रहें तो आज नहीं तो कल उनका solution मिल ही जाता है।

दोनों ही experience के बाद आसान बन जाते हैं :

जब आप एक ही रास्ते से बार -बार जाते हैं तो subconsciously उस रास्ते का map आपके mind में तैयार हो जाता है , आप ब्रेकर आने से पहले ही जान जाते हैं की वो आने वाला है और accordingly अपनी speed adjust कर लेते हैं . Life में भी जब आप किसी obstacle से पार पा लेते हैं तो आपके mind में उससे या उस जैसी problems से निपटने का blue print तैयार हो जाता है और next time वैसी ही समस्या आने पर आप आसानी से उसे solve कर लेते हैं .

Friends, आपने अपनी life के लिए जो भी goals set किये हैं उन्हें जी -जान से pursue कीजिये और इस बात के लिए तैयार रहिये कि उनके पूरा होने में तमाम बाधाएं आएँगी पर वे सभी road पे आने वाले speed breakers की तरह ही होंगी जो एक बार को आपकी speed कम तो कर सकती हैं पर आपको अपना सपना पूरा करने से रोक नहीं सकतीं.

All the best ! :)

Learn to know yourself! (अपने आप को जानना सीखें !)

                          
लोग दुनिया को जानने की बात तो करते हैं, पर स्वयं को नहीं जानते. जानते ही नहीं, बल्कि जानना ही नहीं चाहते. खुद को जानना ही दुनिया की सबसे बड़ी नियामत है. जो खुद को नहीं जानता, वह भला दूसरों को कैसे जानेगा? दूसरों को भी जानने के लिए पहले खुद को जानना आवश्यक है. इसलिए बड़े महानुभाव गलत नहीं कह गए हैं कि जानने की शुरुआत खुद से करो.

एक महात्मा का द्वार किसी ने खटखटाया. महात्मा ने पूछा-कौन? उत्तर देने वाले ने अपना नाम बताया. महात्मा ने फिर पूछा कि क्यों आए हो? उत्तर मिला- खुद को जानने आया हूँ. महात्मा ने कहा-तुम ज्ञानी हो, तुम्हें ज्ञान की आवश्यकता नहीं. ऐसा कई लोगों के साथ हुआ. लोगों के मन में महात्मा के प्रति नाराजगी छाने लगी. एक बार एक व्यक्ति ने महात्मा का द्वार खटखटाया- महात्मा ने पूछा-कौन? उत्तर मिला-यही तो जानने आया हूँ कि मैं कौन हूँ. महात्मा ने कहा-चले आओ, तुम ही वह अज्ञानी हो, जिसे ज्ञान की आवश्यकता है? बाकी तो सब ज्ञानी थे.

इस तरह से शुरू होती है, जीवन की यात्रा. अपने आप को जानना बहुत आवश्यक है. जो खुद को नहीं जानता, वह किसी को भी जानने का दावा नहीं कर सकता. लोग झगड़ते हैं और कहते हैं- तू मुझे नहीं जानता कि मैं क्या-क्या कर सकता हूँ. इसके जवाब में सामने वाला भी यही कहता है. वास्तव में वे दोनों ही खुद को नहीं जानते. इसलिए ऐसा कहते हैं. आपने कभी जानने की कोशिश की कि खुदा और खुद में ज्यादा फ़र्क नहीं है. जिसने खुद को जान लिया, उसने खुदा को जान लिया. पुराणों में भी कहा गया है कि ईश्वर हमारे ही भीतर है. उसे ढूँढ़ने की कोई आवश्यकता नहीं.

सवाल यह उठता है कि अपने आप को जाना कैसे जाए? सवाल कठिन है, पर उतना कठिन नहीं, जितना हम सोचते हैंे. ज़िंदगी में कई पल ऐसे आएँ होंगे, जब हमने अपने आप को मुसीबतों से घिरा पाया होगा. इन क्षणों में समाधान तो क्या दूर-दूर तक शांति भी दिखाई नहीं देती. यही क्षण होता है, खुद को पहचानने का. इंसान के लिए हर पल परीक्षा की घड़ी होती है. परेशानियाँ मनुष्य के भीतर की शक्तियों को पहचानने के लिए ही आती हैं. मुसीबतों के उन पलों को याद करें, तो आप पाएँगे कि आपने किस तरह उसका सामना किया था. एक-एक पल भारी पड़ रहा था. लेकिन आप उससे उबर गए. आज उन क्षणों को याद करते हुए शायद सिहर जाएँ. पर उस वक्त तो आप एक कुशल योद्धा थे, जिसने अपने पराक्रम से वह युद्ध जीत लिया.

वास्तव में मुसीबतें एक शेर की तरह होती हैं, जिसकी पूँछ में समाधान लटका होता है. लेकिन हम शेर की दहाड़ से ही इतने आतंकित हो जाते हैं कि समाधान की तरफ हमारा ध्यान ही नहीं जाता. लेकिन धीरे से जब हम यह सोचें कि अगर हम जीवित हैं, तो उसके पीछे कुछ न कुछ कारण है. यदि शेर ने हमें जीवित छोड़ दिया, तो निश्चित ही हमारे जीवन का कोई और उद्देश्य है. उस समय यदि हम शांति से उन परिस्थितियों को जानने का प्रयास करें, तो हम पाएँगे कि हमने उन क्षणों का साहस से मुकाबला किया. यही से हमें प्राप्त होता है आत्मबल और शुरू होता है खुद को जानने का सिलसिला.
हम याद करें उन पलों के साहस को. कैसी सूझबूझ का परिचय दिया था हमने. आज भी यदि मुसीबतें हमारे सामने आईं हैं, तो यह जान लीजिए कि वह हमें किसी परीक्षा के लिए तैयार करने के लिए आईं हैं. हमें उस परीक्षा में शामिल होना ही है. यानी खुद की शक्ति को पहचान कर हमें आगे बढ़ना है. जीवन इसी तरह आगे बढ़ता है.

यह बात हमेशा याद रखें कि जिसने परीक्षा में अधिक अंक लाएँ हैं, उन्हें और परीक्षाओं के लिए तैयार रहना है. जो फेल हो गए, उनके लिए कैसी परीक्षा और काहे की परीक्षा? याद रखें मेहनत का अंत केवल सफलता नहीं है, बल्कि सफलता के बाद एक और कड़ी मेहनत के लिए तैयार होना है. बस..

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